Hugely entertaining. Unless you’re a miserable git! 😉
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Most of us claim we want to be happy—to have meaningful lives, enjoy ourselves, experience fulfillment, and share love and friendship with other people and maybe other species, like dogs, cats, birds, and whatnot. Strangely enough, however, some people act as if they just want to be miserable, and they succeed remarkably at inviting misery into their lives, even though they get little apparent benefit from it, since being miserable doesn’t help them find lovers and friends, get better jobs, make more money, or go on more interesting vacations. Why do they do this? After perusing the output of some of the finest brains in the therapy profession, I’ve come to the conclusion that misery is an art form, and the satisfaction people seem to find in it reflects the creative effort required to cultivate it. In other words, when your living…
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scottishmomus 
I am normally happy go lucky but when I am miserable normal I am in a ton of pain like I am at the moment and everyone feels the brunt, cats, dogs, birds and the whatnot, the amount of time I have stumbled into that fecking stupid hall stand. My wife calls this time Petes Periods because and grumpy and in pain. But really I have reason to be miserable, it starts a few days earlier with severe headaches which the dosage of dihydrocodine is doubled, then the spasms in my spine along with inability to stand without support, the patches I wear constantly for pain contains fentanyl (sp) which is 100 times more potent then morphine has no affect as I tend to live in a world of sleep and drowsiness, the inability to control my bladder has now increased from will I get there in time to no point moving, inability to move my bowels as the near that helps me bear down is damaged so a mixture of high fibre diet and powdered laxatives, once a week I have the luxury of sitting on my throne and hope for the best. You think talking about is embarrassing, I shout on my wife as I cannot wipe, if she is at work well…………
These ‘episodes’ can last from 5 days to many months depending on each day depends on my body. Latest results from neurologist is that I have blockage in my brain and spinal cord which stop nerve signals along with nerve damage in many of the major nerves.
I am in constant pain every minute of every day, everywhere, so I do have a excuse to be miserable, but majority of the time I am me which you will find a smile on my face – If you wish to be miserable every day just because you cannot be bothered to smile then its your God given right, but pray to God you don’t experience a day in my life. So smile you miserable bastard 🙂
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Ok. You’re allowed. Absolutely. But just some days. :)x
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Oh of course just some days x 🙂
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:)x
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